So, what exactly did you mean by that?

This definition is just one tiny piece of my struggle with definitions as I work to consolidate my understandings into some kind of cohesive system of belief.
Humans do not live in a static, scientifically-provable “real

Can we see without making sense of what we see?
If, for example, I see a ghost and the ghost is real, I might still only “see” a wisp of smoke, a shimmer of light. I don’t believe in ghosts. They don’t make sense in my internal model of reality. I cannot and never will see one. But in some models of reality, in some cultures, ghosts are very real and people see them all the time.
One can only imagine what infants experience: a chaos of sensory input. Without the models and mental tools that give this input meaning, humans would never be able to sort out the sensory input, connect it to other input, make sense of it, store it, retrieve it, or interact with the world using it.

We don’t notice culture, unless we make a serious effort to do so, and even then, there are parts of culture that appear to be related to the human instinct, that appear “cross-culturally,” such as the a priori models of space and time (a la Kant). Confused yet? Me, too!
But I can’t begin to point out to people that they live in a variation of the Dominator Culture — or should I call it the Dominator Reality? — unless I can define my terms. I can’t point to an alternative reality, the possible world of the Animist Culture, unless I can define the words dominator, culture, animist, reality, internal models, and so on. My readers might understand these words in typical ways, for example, “reality is what is.” But they won’t understand them as I seek to define them, for example, “reality is the meaningful model of the world in which we live, which exists inside of an unknowable mystery.” God is another of those words. The soul is another.
Argh! It’s been years working on definitions. And all I want to say is “Come on, human people!

Love,
Lilly